Sex Twice a Week? Really?
Written by Alex
Hey Tribe,
Welcome back!
This email might go in a whole other direction than you thought by clicking on it.
I won’t tell you how much sex you need or should have in your marriage.
Although biology tells you, as a man, that you need it 2 times a week to “top off” your woman with sperm (it dies after about 5 days) to make sure you are the father if some babies come out of this.
Evolution doesn’t care about your feelings. Anyway.
This email is about something else that ties into this.
Everyone tells you, it’s normal for sex to go down after marriage, more so after kids, etc, right? It’s just “what it is”
It’s normal.
What’s also normal? Every second marriage is getting divorced…
Being normal
I, personally, always had issues with being like everyone else. Maybe it’s because I am a somewhat creative type, but it just never felt right to be like everyone else. I needed to stand out. I had weird clothes, flashy cars, the most outlandish stuff.
Some would call it eccentric.
These days I call it healthy.
How so?
Think about what the average person is doing:
Social Media 24/7
Netflix, Videogames, porn
Eating junk all day
Working a 9-5 they hate
Sexless marriage
Spoiled little brats as kids
A developed mind of a 19 year old, if so
So, the message is clear already, isn’t it?
If you do what everyone else does, you will get what everyone else gets.
It’s weird to me that this concept isn’t grasped by normies.
They shittalk the Media constantly, say “this food is really unhealthy haha” right before they stuff it into their mouth.
Do they even listen to themselves?
Respect or fitting in
I don’t know if people don’t respect themselves enough to take care of their shit, or if they just try to fit in. Or do things like everyone else does DESPITE THE FACT THE OTHER PEOPLE ARE MISERABLE.
I don’t understand this mindset. Do you?
You see the coworker who sweats like the niagara falls after just one flight of stairs, and you don’t make the connection it’s due to a bad diet, and not enough movement? Or worse, you make the connection, maybe even tell him, “You need to take the steps more to stay healthy!” while you call the lift?
Hypocrisy is one thing. Being fucking stupid is another.
You blame your wife for not putting out. You accept it because it is normal. Instead of trying to work on yourself, so she might be interested in you again? Maybe try to fix things to not end up in a resentful dead bedroom for two decades?
Why are people doing this to themselves?
I don’t know.
All I know is that it leads nowhere.
And we DO KNOW that.
Because there are billions of people being a prime example of how this life-path ends.
So here is your lesson: Do as everyone else does, get “rewarded” with what everyone else gets.
Or to make it positive:
Go against the masses. Be like no one else. Fix yourself, fix your mind, your money, your marriage. Eat properly, exercise, voluntarily take on struggle to grow as a person.
What can you lose?
The broke, sexless, low-energy life everyone else has?
Tough loss, buddy!
So, yes, you can have sex twice a week with kids, both working, 10 years down your marriage. I know a lot of examples who managed that. But they didn’t get it by doing like everyone else did.
They improved themselves. Fixed their finances, so this burden is off, fixed their mind, so they became interesting again, fixed their body, so the woman actually WANTS to fuck. Stopped being butthurt and resentful IF she rejected them, developed true abundance.
And their life turned into the life, everyone else dreams of.
You can do it, too.
Remember, there is really nothing to lose, other than a shit life.
At worst, you change one shit life for another.
I literally don’t see a single reason why you shouldn’t at least try it.
Unless you want to be “normal”.
Cheers,